Those Unforgettable Years with My Dad, Christopher Adeniyi Badejo

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Yetunde Badejo

Cherished moments of those childhood years, when with my brothers, I would listen to my father’s enthralling tales in the cosy ambience of our living room, float back from the mistiness of distant memories. I recall how his animated gestures and impeccable mimicry breathed life into his captivating narratives. Whether recounting his wild escapades or mischievous exploits he orchestrated himself, Dad had this extraordinary penchant for infusing humour into every situation. This remarkable ability not only endeared him to his loved ones but also left an indelible mark on the countless individuals he encountered along the winding path of his life’s journey.

Born on May 2, 1946, into the Badejo (Oloyemarun) family from Ijebu-Ife in Ogun State, Daddy bore the name Christopher Adeniyi Badejo. He attended the (great) St. Anthony Catholic School, Esure, from 1962 to 1966, where he obtained his West African School Certificate (WASC). He worked briefly at the Nigerian Printing Press, a division of the Federal Ministry of Information in Apapa, Lagos. Following this, he travelled out of the country to Germany, where he spent a year, and then moved to the United Kingdom to continue his education.

In the bustling city of London, he furthered his studies at the esteemed London Polytechnic School. There, he obtained his well-deserved “Diploma in Transportation.” Embracing the challenges and opportunities bestowed upon him, he seamlessly worked for different companies in the United Kingdom for about a decade. Throughout, he paid his dues, shaping his destiny through tireless determination and unwavering drive. With each passing day, he journeyed through a myriad of experiences, leaving an indelible mark on the tapestry of his life.

After his return from the United Kingdom to Nigeria in 1977, he joined the Nigerian Aviation Handling Company (NAHCO). Joining the company’s operations department, specifically in the “Ramps and Cargo” division, he assumed responsibility for overseeing the activities of foreign airlines. His dedication and proficiency propelled him to the position of cargo manager within NAHCO. Later on, he was appointed as the Kano Airport Station Manager, serving in that role until his retirement in 2001. In 1999, while still employed, he pursued higher education at Bayero University Kano, successfully completing a Postgraduate Diploma in Public Policy and Administration. Building on this achievement, he subsequently earned a Master’s degree in Public Policy and Administration from the same university in 2002, fulfilling his passion for management.

During his early years back in Nigeria, Otunba Christopher Adeniyi was a known active member of the Island Club, Lagos, and Lagos Country Club, where he was known for his lively, generous demeanor. His notable philanthropy led to his being conferred with the chieftaincy title of “Bobagunwa of Ijelu-Ekiti” from the Oba of Ijelu-Ekiti in July 2017.

 Our father was also a diligent and committed worker, known for his boundless energy and love for learning. He possessed a vibrant personality, relishing in his passion for travel. A true socialite, he cherished attending gatherings and spending time with his close-knit group of friends, affectionately known as “the boys,” alongside his beloved brothers, particularly Uncle TMC, the late Uncle Banjo, and Uncle Augustine. With his remarkable listening skills and genuine warmth, he easily won the hearts of many.

 Our father, whom we affectionately referred to as Daddy, was fully immersed in the lives of his children and grandchildren. His non-judgmental nature allowed us to freely share the funny, not-so-funny, and peculiar anecdotes with him, knowing he would listen with an open heart. He constantly checked in on us, showing genuine concern for our overall well-being and seeking intricate details of our daily activities as well as our future aspirations. Our family’s welfare and care were his top priorities, and his love extended wholeheartedly to his children, daughters-in-law Yetunde and Dr. Maureen, and most notably, his cherished grandchildren. With immense pride, he would beam and proclaim, “I am the proud Grandpa of four remarkable boys – My Boys!” A radiant smile etched across his face as he bestowed endless affection upon them.

 He was an avid supporter of Manchester United, enthusiastically cheering for his favorite football team. It was always an entertaining scene to witness him engaging in lively banter with my brothers over the game. Our household reverberated with laughter as he delighted in both dancing and staying updated with the latest news from Al Jazeera and CNN. Moreover, he consistently provided us with encouragement, offering unwavering support and urging his children to pursue their aspirations. His humor was infectiously delightful, and he would regale us with countless hours of humorous anecdotes and life lessons. He was happily married to our beloved mother, the late Grace Modupe Badejo, who bore him three lovely children.

Snatched from us suddenly by the cold hands of death on November 28, 2023—a day we will never forget. His words still echo in our thoughts: “With hard work and patience – every good thing in time will come.” Oh, how we miss those moments, filled with laughter, security, and a profound sense of pride that he was our father.

Daddy, it really hurts us to see you gone. Alas, life will indeed be different without you! Our solace is that you have ascended to the comforting embrace of the Lord. Till we meet to part no more, you will be forever cherished.

From your dear children, Anthonia Yetunde Badejo, Dr. Christopher Adeniyi Badejo (Jnr.), and Michael Adegbenga Badejo.

 Ms Badejo writes from Lagos