Vera Chikezie-Oke Takes the Gospel of Wholesome Sexuality to Hospitals

In a groundbreaking move to revolutionize sexual health care, Vera Chikezie Oke, a sexologist and relationship counselor, is adding value to lives through Wholesome Sexuality—a faith-based initiative aimed at promoting healthy, God-centered intimacy—into hospitals across the country.

This bold initiative addresses a longstanding gap in healthcare, where sexual health has often been treated as a secondary concern despite its crucial impact on overall well-being.

With over a decade of experience in relationship counseling and as a certified clinical sexuality coach, Vera has seen firsthand the importance of integrating sexual health into comprehensive care. “Many healthcare systems have historically overlooked sexual health, treating it as a secondary concern. By integrating sexual health into routine care, we ensure it receives the attention it deserves,” Vera explains.

“Hospitals are places where patients experience life-altering transitions, such as pregnancy, surgery, or chronic illness, which often impact their sexual well-being. Wholesome Sexuality provides a platform to address these concerns proactively, fostering emotional healing alongside physical recovery.”

Through Wholesome Sexuality, Vera seeks to destigmatize the conversation around sex, making it a vital part of healthcare. As she points out, “Sexuality remains a sensitive and often taboo topic in many cultures. Patients, staff, and administrators may view it as inappropriate in hospitals.

To address this, we present Wholesome Sexuality as part of holistic care, emphasizing its medical, psychological, and relational benefits.”

The initiative has already begun to show immense promise in improving patient care.

“Addressing sexual concerns proactively helps patients navigate challenges with confidence, while preventive education reduces risks like infections or dysfunctions,” Vera notes. “Normalizing intimate conversations also fosters emotional relief and empowers individuals and couples to address issues without shame. Moreover, this approach strengthens relationships, especially for couples facing health challenges like infertility or chronic illness, by helping them reconnect and grow together.”

One of the significant challenges, Vera acknowledges, is overcoming the discomfort many feel when it comes to discussing sexual health, especially in a hospital setting. “By creating an environment where patients feel seen and supported, we break down barriers that prevent people from seeking help,” she says. “Wholesome Sexuality ensures that sexual health becomes part of a comprehensive approach to well-being, aligning with the World Health Organization’s definition of health as encompassing physical, mental, and social well-being.”

Vera’s work, which includes programs like Virgin and Thriving and Mastering the Art of Lovemaking, has already helped many singles and couples improve their relationships. With the launch of Wholesome Sexuality in hospitals, she is ensuring that sexual health is no longer an afterthought but an integral part of the healthcare conversation.

Through this innovative initiative, Vera is leading the charge in redefining sexual health care, ensuring that intimacy and relationships are openly discussed and nurtured in every aspect of life.