A Beloved Mother, Forever Remembered

Uwa Idele

Today, we gather to remember and celebrate the life of our beloved mother, Elder Mrs. Elizabeth Izegbuwa Idele (fondly known as Lizzy, Mama Idele), who transitioned to eternal glory on November 21, 2023. One year has passed since we lost you, Mama, yet your presence remains in our hearts, and your love continues to guide us.

In life, you were a beacon of light to all who had the privilege of knowing you. Your unwavering love, boundless compassion, and unshakable faith in Christ illuminated the lives of so many. As a mother, you were the epitome of selflessness, always putting others before yourself. Your kindness was evident in the way you welcomed others into your home, making them feel seen, loved, and valued. You were a nurturing and compassionate companion, not only to us, your six children, but to anyone who crossed your path.

Mama, you embodied what it meant to be a servant of God. As an Elder in the church, you devoted much of your life to guiding others and providing counsel in both spiritual and personal matters. Your wisdom was sought by many, and your role in church administration was one of great responsibility and respect. You dedicated your time to helping others grow in their faith, always leading by example. Whether it was organising events, offering advice, or praying for those in need, you always found a way to serve. Your tireless work in the church and the impact you had on so many lives are a testament to your deep commitment to the Lord’s work.

Your teachings were not only spiritual but also deeply practical. You instilled in us the values of putting others first, living with compassion, and always acting with integrity. You believed firmly in living a Christ-centred life, one that is marked by love, humility, and service. Your unwavering faith was the foundation of our family, and it was through your example that we learned how to navigate the world with grace and compassion.

One of the lessons that stands out most is the wisdom you imparted to us as children: “If you spare the rod, you spoil the child.” This was not just about discipline but about understanding the importance of setting boundaries, guiding us with love, and teaching us accountability. While your approach was firm, it was always wrapped in love, and we knew that every correction was aimed at helping us grow into better, more responsible individuals. Your patience, understanding, and encouragement were never far behind your discipline.

Mama, your giving nature was extraordinary. You had a heart that never hesitated to offer whatever you had to those in need, whether it was food, a listening ear, or a financial gift. You were a sacrificial giver, always seeking ways to bless others, even when you had little for yourself. We watched you give without expecting anything in return, always with a smile, always with love. Your generosity was not limited to material things but extended to your time, energy, and prayers. It is a lesson we carry with us every day—to give freely and joyfully, just as you did.

In every area of your life, you showed us the importance of integrity. You taught us that doing what is right, even when it is difficult or unpopular, is more important than anything else. Your strong moral compass was evident in all that you did. You lived your life with honesty, respect, and a profound sense of justice. You led us to understand that integrity is the foundation upon which lasting relationships are built, and it is something we must cherish and uphold, no matter where life takes us.
While the pain of losing you is still felt deeply, we take solace in the lessons you taught us, the love you gave, and the strength of character you embodied. You have left an indelible mark on all of us, your children, your grandchildren, your extended family, and your community. We are who we are because of your example, and we will continue to honour your memory by living the values you instilled in us.

Your legacy of love, faith, and generosity lives on in us. Every time we choose to put others first, offer a helping hand, speak the truth with courage, and serve others with a heart full of love, we carry your spirit with us. Your life was a testament to the power of a loving, giving, and faithful heart, and we are so proud to call you our mother.

Mama, we may no longer be able to see your smile or hear your voice, but we will always feel your presence in our hearts. As we continue on our journey through life, we know that you are watching over us, cheering us on, and praying for us. Your love continues to guide us, and your memory will forever be a source of strength.

As you rest in Christ, we take comfort in knowing that you are in the arms of the Lord, free from pain and suffering. We will hold your memory close, cherish the lessons you taught us, and pass them down to future generations.
Continue to rest in peace, Mama. We love you always, and we will never forget the incredible impact you had on our lives.

With love and eternal gratitude.

•Uwa Idele on behalf of your children (Ameze, Abieyuwa, Uwa, Efe, Osaro and Egbe)